Maeve and Lilly

All right… Finally. Here are some brand-spankin’-new photos. You got yer Summer pictures and you got yer back-to-school pictures. Have at ‘em.

Lilly’s friend Savannah invited her to go the DeForest Norskies high school football game. After she  got picked up, Maeve and I went to the store to buy snacks (pizza, snack mix, popcorn, ice cream) and grabbed a video (Flushed Away). We watched the movie and ate our snacks on the couch. As I was putting her to bed, she said in a rather wistful voice, “that was a good night.” When Lilly got home an hour later, she regaled us with tales of crazy high-schoolers and a whole lot of junk food. Now she wants to go to a Badgers game. *sigh* Maybe with Grampy?

In an uncharacteristically spontaneous move, we booked a hotel in Appleton Saturday and hit the road within an hour. The original plan was to go to the Menasha Jazz Festival and Turtle Festival, but once we got up there, we realized there was a lot more going on. After checking into our hotel, we walked two blocks to a really great children’s museum. The visit ended in a long multimedia art session. Afterwards we walked about a mile to a recommended pizza restaurant and pigged out.

The next morning, we strolled around the Lawrence University campus. We couldn’t help but think that this might be a good place for the girls. Though Lilly keeps insisting that she wants to go to Journalism school in New York. Next up was a pretty awesome planetarium show in Menasha at the UW Fox River Center. It was geared towards kids and featured an animation of a roller coaster that made all of us dizzy. From there, we went to Oshkosh and spent some time at Menominee Park at the huge playground, tiny zoo, and miniature railroad. Then we hit the road and made it home from the whirlwind trip by 8pm.

First day of school: Lilly in grade four and Maeve in grade one! Lilly has been worried about her teacher because apparently the scuttlebutt is that she is very mean. We had a number of talks about giving her a chance and that maybe she’s just strict and her class last year was ill-behaved. Lilly tried to be optimistic but she had a lot of trepidation as she got on the bus. After the first day, Mrs. B was deemed nice, though she was still worried about day #2. After the second day, she was still deemed nice. After two weeks, Lilly decided that she was “strict but fair.”

Maeve’s teacher appears to be well-liked by everyone and Maeve is flourishing. She wrote “school is fun” on a piece of paper the other day and seems to quite enjoy doing her homework. In fact, after one week, Maeve got moved to the advanced-readers table. At the school open house, Mrs. S told us that Maeve has had none of the fooling-around behaviors that were sometimes a problem last year in kindergarten.

 Well this is embarrassing. I haven’t posted all summer long. The longer I put it off, the more daunting it became. Now there’s no possible way to catch up, so here goes…

• The girls went to Out And About Day Camp again this year. They had field trips every day: bowling, the library, karate in town, and trips further afield like the EAA in Oshkosh and Miller Park in Milwaukee.
• Lilly had a chance to reconnect with Sonja so that now they’re BFFs again. Some fences were also apparently mended between Lilly and former BFF Riley. They had a couple of invitations and play dates back and forth and there appears to be an uneasy truce.
• “Grandma” Betty (our next-door neighbor) took the girls to Rhythm and Booms in Madison and to quite a few Wednesday-night concerts at Firemans Park in DeForest. She also took them swimming at Penny’s pool on a weekly basis.
• Maeve lost several teeth amid lots of blood and drama.
• The first-sleepover milestone came and went for Maeve at her friend Nora’s house.
• The girls completed another round of swim lessons. Maeve is doing well but the instructors told Lilly she should think about joining a swim team.
• We continued to read Harry Potter for bedtime stories; we are now on year five (The Order of the Phoenix).
• Maeve is a trip. She just interjects statements like: “That’s how I roll.” “What were ya thinkin’?” “Come on people.” “Excuse me I’m going to toot — got some gas comin’ through.”
• Maeve’s reading skills border on amazing. She seems to be well beyond where Lilly was on the cusp of first grade. I’m constantly asking her if she’s read something before or whether someone told her what a sign was.
• Lilly kept up on her multiplication flash cards all summer and is now flawless up to the twelves. She also continues to read voraciously.

Finally got the video pulled off my new Flip camera and slapped together in iMovie.

School’s out. Here comes summer…

Faithful followers with recall Lilly’s growing interest in track  and her fascination with the Olympics. We signed her up for the YMCA track program this spring and today was her first meet. Although she likes the field event OK, she often tells us “All I want to do is run.” She signed up for the 50-, 100-, and 200-meter races. It was a cold and windy day with the temperature hovering in the mid-40s. The wind was cutting and the last thing we wanted to be doing was sitting around on the grass waiting for her events. She came in fourth in her 50- and 100-meter heats, but was so happy to just be taking part and doing it. Her pace may not be the quickest, but her form is excellent and she appears to move almost effortlessly. With some more personal coaching attention, she could probably do quite well. We were all so chilled (the vile concession stand coffee did nothing to warm us) that when Lilly announced she wanted to bail on the 200-meter we offered no argument and headed home.

Maeve headed off to school with a box of cupcakes under her arm. She had opened a pile of presents before breakfast and was buzzing about all the clothes from Nanny and the new desk for her room. After work we went out to a birthday dinner at a restaurant of her choice. (Any guesses? Culvers. Surprise!)

Friday night, I put together Maeve’s new desk. At some point, I had to flip the leg assembly over and, with a sickening thud, connected with Maeve’s mouth as she bent forward putting her head in exactly the wrong place at the wrong time. The super-wiggly front tooth as knocked out and the blood gushed. Needless to say, I felt terrible. After we got her settled in bed with tissues and the boo-boo bunny, Maeve immediately directed me to get back to work on the desk. She recovered quickly and even began to wonder whether the Tooth Fairy might leave her more money since it was so painful. (She did.)

Saturday we had a birthday party for all her little friends (Riley, Morgan, Carolyn, Geri, Nora). It was a low-key affair with cake, ice cream, presents, and barely controlled chaos in the bouncy house in the back yard. After the dust settled, Maeve spent several hours registering her new Webkinz on-line.

Whoa. I am now the father of a nine-year-old. Lilly had four of her friends (Lexi, Jackie, Savannah, and Sonja) over for a sleep-over Friday night. We removed Maeve from the occasion by allowing to go on a sleep-over to her friend (and Sonja’s sister) Nora’s house. I had expected noise and chaos (especially screaming an giggling) but I hadn’t realized the amount of running and jumping. We retreated to our room and let the girls run amok downstairs. They finally hit the sack  around 11pm.

They were up by 5:45am. After muffins for breakfast we headed to Boulders Climbing Gym. Sonja had done quite a bit of climbing and Lilly had done it twice, but the other girls (including Maeve, once again part of the group) hadn’t. All of them quickly gained confidence and skill and the hour flew by. Lilly was determined to master a difficult overhang and after 5 or 6 attempts actually did reach the top just as time was up.

After dropping the guests off, we tried unsuccessfully to find Lilly a new bike for less than $300.  We were hampered a bit by Lilly’s color requirement (blue) as well and finally had to scrub the mission. The next day we did find a suitable ride for her and as she told Nanny on the phone: “it’s blue and it’s FAST.”

Lilly has been bugging me for a pet of her own for a long time. At some point I told her that anything she caught down by the pond she could keep as a pet. I figured that would keep her busy all summer chasing after frogs, turtles, fish, whatever… I congratulated myself on my awesome parenting technique and cleverness. Lilly and her friend Lexi decided they were going to get that pet and I was astounded when, within 15 minutes, Lexi had netted a frog. Well I had given my word.

Feeding Jeremy (as in Fisher) soon became an issue. One would think that our yard would yield an abundance of insects, but it’s been difficult to find things other than Asian lady bugs, fire ants, and spider (all of which apparently are hard on Jeremy’s tummy). Then there is the disgusting water that need to be changed on a weekly basis. I’m rethinking my cleverness.